Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Opposites Attract

I'm going to go ahead and call bullshit on that. Sure opposites do attract but it tends to be mostly magnetically than anything else. For me, however, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't like someone that is the opposite of me, unless your talking gender. Yes I want to date a girl and not a dude and yes I don't want a girl with a penis but I feel that's as far as my for argument goes. Don't get me wrong I can still be attracted to someone who is the opposite of me but at the end of the day I want to be with a girl that's pretty similar to me. I need a girl with a silly sense of humor, I need a girl who's attentive, and I need a girl that can maybe share my love for video games and nerdy things...to an extent of course (I'm not THAT picky). I'm not going to go fall in love with some hot girl who hates technology and doesn't know Africa is a country, that's just not my taste. They say don't judge a book by it's cover but I'm not gonna buy a book if the cover depicted some scene of bestiality, but a book with a color cover and an interesting title might make me want to read it. If we weren't meant to judge books by their covers (I mean that both literally and figuratively) then books wouldn't' have covers. I'm not saying I'm shallow, even though everyone is in their own way, I'm just looking for a girl with a little beauty because lets face it I have to be attracted to the person physically and have to want to see their drooling squinty smelly breath face in the morning. It's a shame though that the older I get the more personality matters because their are a lot of beautiful girls out there that ruin it by opening their mouth and spouting some asinine verbal abortion about the Hills or Twilight. I find myself cringing sometimes when I get a peak at some people's personality, and I don't mean that in a cocky way like I'm this handsome awesome person with a fantastic personality, it's just that some people don't take the time to improve themselves. If only beauty were something to be earned then maybe the beautiful would appreciate it instead of abusing it or using it as a fall back as their meal ticket. When I watch TV late at night I used to get excited about seeing those Girls Gone Wild commercials and now I just feel sad and ashamed which are two weird feelings to go through while having an erection. Being in one of those DVDs is almost like a free pass for a guy to treat you like shit because he knows you don't have enough self decency to treat yourself with respect so why should he? They say dress how you want to be treated, well...you dress like a whore so I guess you'll be treated as such. I suppose when you look sexy as hell life doesn't really call for you to have a personality, I mean as long as your fine only being seen for face value. One day when my generation is well into adult hood things in the romantic department will probably start looking up for me since most women...I'm sorry, girls haven't quite matured yet but to be honest most of them wont' be worth it anyway. I feel bad for women who want to be taken seriously and not be treated as objects when other members of their gender are flashing their boobs for money and offering their bodies for rap videos and pornos and ad's and countless other mediums. Man this post sounds angry, I swear it's not. Smiles all day.

-Chris